The Give-and-Go
Pass, cut, and keep moving — don't freeze after she responds.
Good morning.
Most cold approach advice stops at the opener. That's why so many men can start strong — and still lose the interaction thirty seconds later when she responds and their mind empties.
The play call — Give-and-Go
On the court, the give-and-go is simple: pass to a teammate, cut hard toward the basket, receive the return pass in stride. The play dies if you pass and stand there watching.
After she responds to your opener, you have about two seconds before your brain starts negotiating: Should I say this? Is she interested? Do I look stupid? Am I bothering her?
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